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By Kim Vij

Raising Eco Friendly Kids with a Butterfly Garden

Butterfly Garden Plants. Purple and red flowers in pot to attract butterflies

Raising kids can be quite magical in the spring and summer as we begin to explore outdoors and discover ways to connect in our garden with our children. It’s a time to catch a peek at a butterfly visiting or bees buzzing by looking for nectar.  

Raising Eco-friendly kids is one of my main goals, so by bringing a child outdoors and into the garden, it can be such a fun way to explore ways to take care of their environment with eco-friendly activities for kids. One way I want to connect this gardening season is by planting a butterfly garden with my children.

Here’s how to create a butterfly garden for success in your garden too.

Which Flowers to Plan to Attract Butterflies

My daughter’s ages 5 and 9 had a lot of fun reading these books together as they learn about environmentally friendly things that they can do, especially as we honor Earth Day.  We took a look around our backyard and decided to do something extra fun this spring to invite animals to our yard eco-system with an urban garden.

We decided together that we were going to create an ecosystem that attracted butterflies and bees to our yard.

Choosing Flowers for a Butterfly Garden

We did a little research online to discover which plants attract butterflies the most.  We’re pretty lucky and have a butterfly rainforest in our community so we also can go there for inspiration on what to plant.  One big tip I want to share is to choose plants that are native to your area. It can make a huge difference on the environment when you choose plants that are meant to be in your zone.  

We live in Florida so we choose plants that are native to here to plant.  We’ve had a lot of success over the years with planting zinnias and milkweed in our garden to attract the local butterflies to eat. Plus they attract pollinators too which help our environment too.

Growing Flowers Specific to Your Region

We choose the following flowers for our garden to attract the butterflies…

  • Verbena
  • Pentas
  • Salvia
  • Milkweed
  • Zinnia
  • Coreopsis (the yellow flowering plant we added for color and for flowers to pick)

Whenever possible try to choose Native Plants. They are best for the environment to conserve water and attract the appropriate wildlife. The girls went to the local plant nursery with me to pick out these flowers. Once we got home they got straight to work, they couldn’t wait!

Creating Flower Pots for Butterfly Garden

How to Attract Monarch Butterflies to Lay Eggs in Your Butterfly Garden with Host Plants

We’ve been very lucky to have planted a milkweed plant, actually, it was cuttings from a neighbor from her plant that roots in water and then has expanded through seed pods to a few plants.  

monarch butterfly caterpillars on milkweed in backyard

Here’s a peek at our Milkweed this year. We just discovered 7 caterpillars beginning to take their course on our plant. We actually brought a few in to watch about a month ago so this has been an ongoing science project at our house. The main this to remember is that you need to plant the very specific plants that the butterflies will lay their eggs on.

TIP Milkweed, parsley and fennel seem to be the easiest for me to grow in our garden.

White butterfly

Use Host Plants for Attracting Butterflies

  • Zebra Swallowtail – paw paw tree
  • Monarch – milkweed
  • Painted Lady – hollyhocks and thistle
  • Black Swallowtail – fennel, carrots, parsley
  • Giant Swallowtail – citrus tree, prickly ash tree
  • Pipevine Swallowtail – Dutchman’s pipevine
  • Tiger Swallowtail – tulip poplar, wild cherry tree
  • Spicebush Swallowtail – spicebush, sassafras tree
  • Red Admiral – false nettles
  • Silvery Checkerspot – purple coneflowers
  • Sulphur butterfly – white clover and legumes
  • Cabbage white – nasturtium, spider flowers(Cleome)
  • Pearl Crescent – asters
  • Variegated & Gulf Fritillary – passion vines
  • Great Spangled Fritillary – violets

Source Butterfly Nature.com 

Butterflies attracted to Zinnias in Gardne

Nector Rich Flowers for Butterflies

  • Butterfly Bush
  • Mexican Sunflower
  • Cone Flower
  • Blackeyed Susan
  • Zinnia
  • Lantana

Here are our little visitors this week in our backyard. My kids are so excited to go and watch them each day. Have you ever had caterpillars at your home?

Using Milkweed with Kids to Attrach Monarch Butterflies to Garden

Giving Ownership in the Garden to Support Raising Eco-Friendly Kids

The main goal is to engage youth and families around the world to be aware of, involved with, and connected to each other and the earth and to empower them to learn about the environment and explore creative new ways to live in harmony.  

Creating this butterfly environment in our yard I feel helped to choose my kids this continual cycle that happens when you put effort to help support it. Our next step is to really focus on our garden to begin to grow vegetables.

Planting Flowers for Butterfly Garden

Being inspired my kids wanted to take action and took charge on planting the flowers in our garden. We choose the area around our front door so that we would have a higher chance of seeing when the butterflies can to visit our home.  

Watch this video of a monarch that stopped by to enjoy our Zinnia flowers this past spring. They planted a few plants where are Zinnia’s return each year on their own.  Can’t wait to share with you in a few months.

Container Planting for Attracting Butterflies

They also planted the big pots at our front door so that they could be responsible for some flowers on their own.  Each day they’ll get a chance to take turns watering the flowers with their special watering can.  It’s when we give the little things to our children to be responsible for, you will discover how these tasks grow into them having the ability to see when additional tasks will need to be done.  

Potting Plants to Attract Butterflies

Here’s a peek at their finished pots.  Love the color combo. As the plants fill in a bit, I will transfer them to different areas in the yard so that the smaller container doesn’t become rootbound, just wanted to give you that heads up.

Plus these are plants that are perennials that will come back year after year which is best for our environment too.

PSST….

Don’t forget to grab this fun butterfly alphabet matching game for your butterfly adventures!

Butterfly Alphabet Matching Card Game
DOWNLOAD BUTTERFLY ALPHABET GAME

Here are a few more activities for kids outdoors that you may enjoy…

Butterfly Books for Kids
10 Flowers to Grow with Kids
Butterfly Balloon STEM Challenge for Kids

Tell us about your backyard garden and how you’re planning to get your family involved? 

Best Flowers to Plant to Attract Butterflies

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About Kim Vij

Early childhood teacher, author, speaker and mom of 3. Kim shares ways to make learning fun and parenting an adventure by sharing developmentally appropriate activities.

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Comments

  1. Michelle says

    April 14, 2016 at 2:00 pm

    You have so many great tips here – I love seeing butterflies flying around here, and we’re going to be revamping our garden “soon” – this will be a great help for me! #client

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